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This is the Year to Close the Wage Gap

April 16, 2012
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Tuesday, April 17 is Equal Pay Day, again. Equal Pay Day 2009 was impetus for my starting this blog. That day I dropped my son at school; at my request he was wearing red – one of the ways activists observe the day. As he was filing into class, I turned to a group of mothers and noted how proud I was he was helping me observe the event. The women, including several who work outside the home, had never heard of the gender wage gap. I was shocked and thought to myself, “Hello ladies, you need to know this!” A blog was born.

Back then, women earned, on average, just 77 cents for every dollar a man earned. Today women earn 77.4 cents. The current gap translates into $10,784 less per year in median earnings, and for women of color, the gap is even greater. African-American women earn, on average, 62 cents, and Hispanic women earn, on average 54 cents, for every dollar men earn.

I can understand why some of my neighbors may not have been aware of the gap three years ago. For starters, women typically don’t talk about salaries. It’s frowned upon in the workplace and it’s considered impolite. On top of that, women are subject to a steady stream of input about their careers that serves only to confuse and incite us and to obscure facts. Look no further than the recent blow up and sparking of a fresh round of “mommy wars” over Hilary Rosen’s comments regarding Ann Romney’s credentials as an economic advisor. Especially when it comes to working and mothering, we hear we should work, we should not, and that our children, our choices and even our chores, all contribute to our salary and stature. Is it any wonder the wage gap between non-mothers and mothers is greater than the gap between women and men?

There is legislation before Congress that could help.The Paycheck Fairness Act would, among other things, prohibit retaliation against employees who ask about or disclose their wages. The Senate rejected the bill in November 2010 but Senator Barb Mikulski and Congresswoman Rosa DeLauro reintroduced it in 2011. The Paycheck Fairness Act would also strengthen the Lilly Ledbetter Act, which gives employees a longer window to file discrimination claims and was signed by President Obama in January 2009.

Three years ago, we may have had good reason to be in the dark about the issues, but if there is ever going to be a year when we can raise awareness about the gender wage gap and persuade Washington to help, this is it. Seven long months away from the general election and already the two political parties are desperately pursuing the “women vote,” with Mitt Romney scrambling to close a polling gender gap.

The former governor of Massachusetts is trying to distance his campaign from the anti-woman legislation and rhetoric that has marred the Republican primary race. His efforts include an attempt to paint President Obama’s job policies as bad for women – a claim Treasury Secretary Timothy Geithner, and many others, reject. And, he is positioning his wife as his expert on all things women – which has resulted in his exclaiming women care about the economy. However the women, and men, in the two-thirds of all U.S. households that rely on a woman’s salary, already knew that. No doubt the GOP hopes to change the debate from hot button topics like contraception and abortion, to jobs and the economy. But these political advisors don’t give women enough credit. Because we know that reproductive rights and the economy are linked.

New research form the National Bureau of Economic Research outlines how access to contraception helps close the wage gap. When women have access to contraception and resources for family planning, they, as well as their spouses, can make informed decisions about education, career, family, and how to best manage all three. This knocks down barriers for women in the workplace and eliminates the excuses that fuel much of the biases against women at work.

Women make up half the workforce and if we’re shortchanged to the tune of $10,622, that’s bad for the economy. All eyes are on us in this election year. We can’t allow politcal rhetoric to cloud the real issues. Now is the time to enlist the support of our elected officials to move family-friendly legislation forward. It’s good for women. It’s good for our families. And it’s good for the economy.

This blog is part of the National Women’s Law Center and Moms Rising blog carnival for equal pay.

 

Motherhood Is Not the Most Important Job

April 14, 2012
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I’ve had a couple of days to watch the craziness that erupted after Democratic pundit Hilary Rosen said of Ann Romney on CNN, “She never worked a day in her life.”  Rosen, who has since apologized, was reacting to Governor Mitt Romney positioning his wife as his advisor on all-things-women including their views on the economy. In recent days Romney has told reporters, “My wife has the occasion, as you know, to campaign on her own and also with me and she reports to me regularly that the issue women care about most is the economy.”

Well, golly, Mr. Governor! Of course we care about the economy. Even Governor Haley could have told you that. Of course Haley got it wrong when she said, “Women don’t care about contraception. They care about jobs and their families.” First of all, contraception and jobs are interrelated. And second, women are capable of caring about multiple topics at once. But as long as candidates view women as a special interest voting bloc, as opposed to half of the people in this country, they will continue to get it wrong when it comes to the “woman vote.”

But women and the economy isn’t the main topic in the fallout after Rosen’s appearance on Anderson Cooper. Mothering is.  When she made the comment about Ann Romney, Rosen was questioning the former First Lady of Massachusetts’ qualifications as an economic advisor and spokeswoman for every woman, given her background and chosen path as a mother and wife. Unfortunately, she misfired in her soundbite and sparked an outroar. Democratic strategist David Axelrod tweeted, “Also Disappointed in Hilary Rosen’s comments about Ann Romney. They were inappropriate and offensive.” First Lady Michele Obama tweeted, “Every mother works hard, and every woman deserves to be respected.” Bloggers and blog commenters went to town defending a woman’s choice to stay at home and raise her family, and explaining the sacrifice and the hardship of life as a “full-time mother”. Even President Obama said, “There’s no tougher job than being a mom.”

I disagree, Mr. President. Mothering isn’t the hardest job. Parenting is. And if we’re ever going to get past the gender gap in this country, we need to shift our thinking about mothering vs. parenting.

The discussion about women choosing to work or stay home is toxic and fraught with emotional landmines. The mere hint of the discussion can spark a “mommy war” and that’s good for nobody. Personally, I bristle at the term full-time mother. I work outside the home eight, sometimes ten, hours a day. Does that make me a part-time mother? And when women who choose to stay home with their children explain their reasons, the benefits, and describe all they do, I wonder what that implies about me and my children.  Does that mean my children are deprived? And if I explain that my children aren’t short-changed, am I implying the woman who stays home is innefficient or exaggerating? It’s a no-win conversation. And, it’s irrelevant.

My husband doesn’t work outside the home. Right or wrong, it’s our family’s choice. It works for us and it’s how I know that mothering is not the hardest job. Parenting is. Some days I have it tougher. I get up at 5 a.m. just to carve out time for myself – to exercise or write. My husband sleeps until 6:30 because he can exercise or read  while the kids are in school. If I’m having a bad day, I still have to sit upright at my desk and keep my head in the game. He has between the hours of 9 and 3 to be in a bad mood in private if he needs it. And some days, he has it tougher and I walk out the door thinking, “Good luck buddy,” as he deals with whining, tears, missing homework, shirts that don’t feel right, playground politics and a packed schedule that goes until 8 p.m.

But for the things that really matter, we are both there. When the kids are sad, or hurt or sick; when we are worried about their health, their futures, their emotional well-being, we’re both there.  That’s the hardest job – and we both own it.

Numerous news outlets have reprinted what Governor Romney used to tell his wife, “Ann your job is more important than mine.” I don’t believe it – unless the Governor was a checked-out dad. For the record, I have no idea what kind of father Romney was or is and you know why? Because we aren’t having the same discussions about men that we are about women. There are no daddy wars. We aren’t scrutinizing men’s career choices nor are we grading their parenting. And why would we? There is no one-size fits all approach to being a man or a father.

And until we apply the same common-sense approach to women, and we stop debating motherhood instead of parenthood, we won’t move the debate forward. Politicians, should take the lead on this one. Paid sick leave, affordable child care, fair pay, access to reproductive rights, and yes, even the economy, are family issues, not women’s issues.

 

Ignorant Legislator of the Week

April 10, 2012
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Senator Glenn GrothmanDo you know why women earn less than men? According to Senator Glenn Grothman of Wisconsin, this week’s Ignorant Legislator recipient, money isn’t as important to us as it is to men. Grothman told The Daily Beast‘s Michelle Goldberg, “You could argue that money is more important for men. I think a guy in their first job, maybe because they expect to be a breadwinner someday, may be a little more money-conscious. To attribute everything to a so-called bias in the workplace is just not true.” And to attribute it to an outdated and sexist idea, Senator, is just not rational. According to the latest U.S. Bureau of Labor Statistic data, approximately 40 percent of working wives out earn their husbands.

Grothman told Goldberg the gender wage gap was caused by women’s decisions to “prioritize childrearing over their careers,” and that the hypothetical working wife is “not go go go.” Grothman clearly hasn’t seen the time use data from the Bureau of Labor Statistics either. If he had, he might know, women, on average, do more household chores than men. This is a scenario that occurs regardless of work status. Of course, we wouldn’t expect Grothman to consider that lack of sick time and affordable childcare affect women more so than men. And most  working mothers are “go go go” from kitchen to daycare to work to daycare to kitchen and then probably back to email five days per week.

There’s an article circulating on the Internet, “Sheryl Sandberg Leaves Work at 5:30. Why Can’t You?”  If you read past the headline you learn that no, the COO of Facebook isn’t superwoman able to run one of the hottest companies in a mere 8 hours a day. You learn that as a working mother, in order to leave the office at 5:30 at night in order to eat dinner with her children, Sandberg has been known to log on to her work email at 5:30 in the morning and again late at night. And if Grothman talked to the working mothers of Wisconsin I bet he’d meet a lot of “money conscious” women who do the grocery shopping, and know the costs of kids’ clothes, school activities and doctor’s visits, and who are looking a their accounts trying to determine how they will fund orthodontia and college and retirement.

Wisconsin, in case you hadn’t heard, just repealed the state’s Equal Pay Enforcement Act, thereby preventing  victims of workplace discrimination from seeking damages in state courts. And Grothman, in case you hadn’t heard, is the same legislator who earlier this year introduced a bill that would require  the Child Abuse and Neglect Prevention Board “to emphasize nonmarital parenthood as a contributing factor to child abuse and neglect.

We think he’s a worthy recipient of this week’s award. Do you agree?

 

 

Ignorant Legislator of the Week

April 1, 2012
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Terry England

Rep. Terry England

Our Ignorant Legislator of the Week award goes to Georgia Representative Terry England for comments he made on the House floor earlier this week while debating HB 954, the “fetal pain” abortion bill which is on its way to the Georgia Governor to sign. I wish I could say this was an April Fool’s Joke, but a.) it happened in March and b.) it’s no joke.

While debating HB 954, Georgia House Representative Terry England spoke about his experiences delivering calves and pigs dead and alive and how it breaks his heart. He also spoke of dog and hog hunting and chicken fighting. What am I talking about you ask? I have no idea. What was Rep. England talking about? Watch the clip.

And then consider this statement on the gentleman from Georgia’s website:

The roughly one minute and forty second clip that you saw posted online were only a small part of a contentious and heart-wrenching three hour debate that took place in the Georgia House of Representatives two weeks ago. If you watch the entire debate, you will see that Rep. England was making the point that we spend a great deal of time debating the value of non-human life in the General Assembly, and less attention to human life. In recent years, this body has taken up issues involving life like dog fighting and chicken fighting to address specific issues associated with these problems in our state, often neglecting the life of the unborn child.  

Still don’t understand what he was talking about? Neither do I.

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Long After Women’s History Month, #Usethe19th

March 31, 2012
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Women’s History Month may end today, but the opportunity still exists for women to make a significant impact on history. In these challenging times, when Washington is playing politics with women’s health and rights, women need to be engaged in the political process.

Jen Deaderick, a writer and creator of the Equal Rights Amendment Facebook page, understands this.  At the beginning of the month, she started the #UseThe19th social media campaign along with journalists Dahlia Lithwick, Lizzie Skurnick, and Rebecca Traister, to encourage women to use one of the most powerful tools we possess – the ability to vote. We recently spoke with Deaderick about #UseThe19th.

HL: Why the #UseThe19th campaign?

JD: A lot of women were struggling to come up with an action  – something they could do — to channel this frustration. The simplest thing to do isn’t to march or boycott or do any of those things, but just vote.  That’s it.  Use the hard fought right to make change.

I wanted something that would remind women to vote, and also evoke our history of activism. And I wanted it to be easy, and visual. So, that’s why it’s a hashtag.

The concept had been brewing in my mind for a little while. I had already scheduled tweets evoking the 19th amendment to go out on election from both my personal feed and my ERAnews feed.

Then I went to see Baratunde Thurston at his Cambridge book launch. He had his book’s hashtag — #HowToBeBlack — in huge letters on a screen behind him, and splashed across the black hoodie he was wearing. And that’s when the whole concept gelled for me.

But I knew I couldn’t just start using it and expect everyone to understand. So, first I enlisted Dahlia Lithwick, Lizzie Skurnick, and Rebecca Traister to help out. They were all already virtual friends of mine, and writers I adored. Plus, Rebecca had just tweeted about women needing to vote, Dahlia was writing about the ultrasound law in Virginia, and Lizzie was posting a lot about this stuff.

We plotted for a little while via Facebook, and decided on a launch date of March 1, to mark the beginning of Women’s History month. I started getting in touch with all the women’s organizations that followed my ERAnews feed, including yours, and all my female friends on my personal Twitter feed. Dahlia, Rebecca, and Lizzie reached out to their contacts, too, and we started hitting critical mass.

Then, a day or so before, the Ms. Magazine Twitter person told me about HERvotes, which was also launching March 1. Over 50 women’s groups were pulling together their resources to get out the women’s vote in November. I got in touch with some of the organizers, and they offered to mention us during their press conference. It was thrilling.

HL: How did it go?

JD: It was amazing. I had prescheduled my tweets, because I had a 9 a.m. flight to Disney World that day, oddly enough. I wasn’t sure I’d be able to get them out in the scramble to get to the airport. So they went out around 7:30 a.m., and I would check in periodically as we drove down the Mass Pike, padded our way through security, and sat waiting at the gate.

At first there were dribs and drabs. Lizzie, Rebecca, and Dahlia sent out theirs, and got a good response. Blair LM Kelley, the civil rights historian and Twitter ninja, sent out some great, popular tweets. The fab Margo Howard, advice queen and smart alleck, sent off some great ones.

Then the magnificent Susan Orlean sent hers out. She has approximately eight zillion followers on Twitter. She blew the lid off the place.

Susan sent her tweet at 8:58 a.m., and was immediately followed by the HERvotes press conference at 9 a.m. Our hashtag was announced, and all of the women’s organizations started using it on their Twitter feeds. It was glorious.

Then, Lizz Winstead, who also has about eight zillion followers, sent out her own #UseThe19th tweet, and then Alice Bradley, aka finslippy, and things got crazy.

I was, by that point, on a plane bound for Detroit, where we had a layover, but I’ve heard that #UseThe19th was a trending topic for a while.

When we finally landed in Detroit, I got to check in on what what happening. It was unbelievable. Andy Borowitz! Rob Delaney! Martha Plimpton, for goodness sake! She was the #UseThe19th queen!

And so, so many other people. Friends, people we didn’t know at all, everyone in between.

Needless to say, we were thrilled, and by the time I got to Disney World, I was already in the happiest place on earth.

HL: What is important for women to know about this year’s election?

JD: I think women are already catching on to what they need to know about this year’s election. That’s why our hashtag got such a response. All this anti-contraception activity has really freaked women out. I was born in 1970, and grew up with a large degree of freedom, but my mother could tell me about her first-hand experiences with life before contraception and abortion were legal, along with what it had been like to live as a woman in the Mad Men days. Women younger had less and less touch with how things had been. The idea that women had had so little freedom and control didn’t seem quite real to them — it barely did to me — and it seemed unimaginable to most of us born after 1970 that things could actually go backwards. Now it’s becoming very real.

There have been hundreds of abortion/contraception regulations proposed and almost 100 passed in a year. Because its all happened under the radar women often missed it. But the aggregate effect is that in many states its almost impossible to terminate a pregnancy and that it gets harder each month.

Also that the Congress almost passed a bill that would allow any employer to prevent an employee from access to contraception if it violated his own religious scruples and it was defeated by a mere clutch of votes.

Part of the idea behind #UseThe19th was to let women, and men, know that they weren’t alone, that other people were worried about this stuff, too.

HL: What should women know about the ERA?

After I started the page, I began contacting some of the women who’ve continued the fight for ratification. They explained to me that the most widely held misconception about the ERA is that it is already part of the Constitution, or that equivalent equal rights are already accorded to the sexes through some other apparatus. Time and again, they would try to get an ERA bill through a local legislature, and be told that the ERA was unnecessary, that they were wasting their time.

The greatest gift to the movement was Justice Scalia’s confirmation of what we’d been saying all along: that equal rights for women are in no way guaranteed by the laws in our country, because the Constitution doesn’t back them up.

Another misconception is that those of us working for the passage of the ERA believe that it will magically bring equality to the sexes. Over on my Equal Rights Amendment page, we get the occasional commenter that feels the need to point out other countries with gender equality enshrined in their Constitutions, that don’t have actual gender equality in day to day life.

The ERA is really just a legal tool. It would give a solid basis on which to decide cases involving gender.

Although, as the mother of seven-year-old girl, I would also appreciate the symbolism of the actual inclusion of women in the document upon which our country is based.

HL: What action do you want women to take and why?

I want women to keep doing what they’re doing, and men, too: talking about this stuff, tweeting about it, posting about it on Facebook. Keep the wave going.

And there are marches they can be part of, like the nationwide marches happening on April 28 and the march in DC on Sept 16.

And vote, and get other people to vote.

But I have a feeling women will be voting in droves in November anyway.

HL: I do too.

Ladies, we are under attack. Stay informed. Stay vocal. Run for office.

Follow the discussion on Twitter: @jendeaderick @Dahlialithwick @rtraister @lizzieskurnick @Hello_Ladies #usethe19th


Will You Cast a Vote (or Two) for Hello Ladies?

March 30, 2012
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Heroine of the Week: Rep. Gwen Moore

March 30, 2012
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Representative Gwen Moore

Representative Gwen Moore

Our Heroine of the Week is Representative Gwen Moore of Wisconsin. Moore spoke yesterday on the House floor in support of the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) and shared her own experience of being raped saying, “This is what American women are facing.”

“Violence against women is as American as apple pie,” Moore said and she urged her colleagues not to view VAWA as a partisan issue.

VAWA, which helps victims get support and protection, has had bipartisan support since its inception in 1994. However this year some Republicans have expressed opposition to language in the bill that would make it easier for immigrants who are crime victims to get certain visas that help them seek legal recourse, and would extend some of the protections to same-sex couples. Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid hopes to take the bill to a vote after Easter.

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Ignorant Legislator of the Week

March 22, 2012
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Senator Chuck Winder

It’s been a wild week in Idaho. The state legislation has been debating a mandatory-ultrasound-before-abortion bill. The bill passed the Senate and was on its way to the House. However last night the Chairman of the House State Affairs Committee canceled a hearing set for today about the bill.  It appears some members of the Idaho House of Representatives are concerned about voting on the bill and hurting their chances for reelection.

But before last night’s decision, several major events took place. Yesterday six women underwent live ultrasounds at the state capitol in an effort to gather support for the bill. And earlier in the week while discussing the bill, and whether or nor it would include an exception for rape victims, Senator Chuck Winder said, “Rape and incest was used as a reason to oppose this. I would hope that when a woman goes into a physician, with a rape issue, that that physician will indeed ask her about perhaps her marriage, was this pregnancy caused by normal relations in a marriage, or was it truly caused by a rape.”

And for that insensitive statement, Senator Winder wins our Ignorant Legislator of the Week Award.

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Senator Barb Mikulski; Longest Serving Woman in Congress

March 21, 2012
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Senator Barb Mikulksi was recognized as the longest serving woman in Congress today. Thank you for your service Senator.

Vote for the Other Guy; Get Free Stuff

March 21, 2012
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FreeAccording to the Associated Press, former Massachusetts Governor Mitt Romney, while campaigning before his win in the  Illinois Republican primary, spoke with a group of Bradley University students and said, “People should vote “for the other guy” if they want “free stuff” like female contraception.”

Not all women are going to vote solely on the issue of contraception Mitt. We care about other issues too — like free tampons. Those things add up. And free nylons. Talk about throwing your money away. And here’s what else we want for anyone out there courting the woman vote:

For our careers:

Free cut and color: Let’s face it. If we’re going to hold on to our jobs, we need to look our best. Men with gray hair get respect and raises. Women with gray hair get downsized.

For our health:

Free sports bras: Cardio is a good defense against heart disease, our number one killer, so we try to work out several times a week. Show us some support.

Free flashlights, cell phones and pepper spray: Some of us like to run and walk as exercise and we need to stay safe in the early morning and evening hours.

For having babies:

Free breast pumps, Lansinoh, and nursing bras: Again with the support.

Free maternity clothes, prenatal vitamins, and shoes (our feet swell you know): Make pregnancy more affordable and the contraception costs might go down – it’s called balancing the budget.

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