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Ohio Working Mothers Need Not Apply

September 9, 2010
By Hello Ladies

Just because it’s legal doesn’t make it right.

The Ohio Supreme Court has ruled that businesses can fire women for taking time off to give birth or for pregnancy-related leave if they haven’t worked the minimum amount of time required to earn leave. In McFee v. Nursing Care Mgmt. of Am., Inc., the court ruled 5-1 that “an employment policy that imposes a uniform minimum-length-of-service requirement for leave eligibility with no exception for maternity leave is not direct evidence of sex discrimination.” Maybe not, but that doesn’t mean it’s not terrible policy.

 Tiffany McFee, had been working at the Pataskala Oaks Care Center, a subacute and rehabilitation facility with the motto “Caring is What We Do Best” (oh, the irony!), for eight months when a doctor ordered her to stop working for a pregnancy-related condition. Soon after she gave birth. She was fired three days later because she took leave before she was eligible. Company policy requires an employee work a year prior to taking leave for any purpose.

The ruling was based on a law that allows “an employer to terminate an employee for any nondiscriminatory reason” and another that states pregnant employees must be treated “the same for all employment-related purposes.”  The court wrote in its ruling, “we do not agree with the premise that McFee was terminated on the basis of pregnancy. Instead, she was let go for taking unauthorized leave from her employment.” This is the same court, remember, that doesn’t consider breastfeeding a pregnancy-related issue.

The case never should have gone to court. Pataskala Oaks Care Center and its parent company, Nursing Care Mgmt. of America, Inc., should have a maternity policy in place for employees with short tenure. It is ridiculous to expect that hopeful or expectant mothers can fully control when they get pregnant. Miscarriages, infertility and a whole host of other factors can interfere with a woman’s plan (Not to mention the move in this country to restrict a woman’s access to the full spectrum of reproductive health options.)

The United States ranks poorly for maternity leave policies, infant mortality rates and maternal death rates. More than two women die every day in the United States from pregnancy related causes and the incidences of “near-miss” complications, where a woman comes close to dying from pregnancy or childbirth, have increased since 2005. What would Nursing Care Mgmt. of America have preferred, that Ms. McFee give birth at work during her lunch hour? Did they really want that responsibility? (My coworkers didn;t even want me to leave breastmilk in the company refigerator never mind leave an afterbirth mess on the office floor.) More likely, they would prefer to hire childless women and not assume the burden of a workforce with uteruses. Maybe they’d even pay a childfree workforce fair or better wages.

The courts may feel restricted by the laws when deciding case like this, so our lawmakers need to wake up too. According to Moms Rising, having a baby is a leading cause of poverty in the U.S. Women represent 51 percent of the population and the majority of our national workforce right now. Women are breadwinners in two-thirds of all U.S. households. Can our national economy really afford to continue to discriminate against such a large segment of the workforce? It’s time corporate America and our legislators recognized these facts and created work/family policies that truly work.

It’s World Breastfeeding Week

August 3, 2010
By Hello Ladies

 It’s World Breastfeeding Week sponsored by the World Alliance for Breastfeeding Action (WABA), a global network of individuals and organizations concerned with the protection, promotion and support of breastfeeding worldwide.

According to the World Health Organization (WHO), “breastfeeding contributes to a lifetime of good health. Adults who were breastfed as babies often have lower blood pressure and lower cholesterol, as well as lower rates of overweight, obesity and type-2 diabetes. There is evidence that people who were breastfed perform better in intelligence tests.” And, “Breastfeeding also benefits mothers. … It reduces risks of breast and ovarian cancer later in life, helps women return to their pre-pregnancy weight faster, and lowers rates of obesity.” WHO recommends women have at least 16 weeks off from work after giving birth in order to adequately rest and breastfeed their child. However the organization reports many women abandon breastfeeding before the recommended six months because they lack the time and a place to breastfeed or pump at work.

Here in the U.S. women definitely struggle to find the time and space to breastfeed. Most women are lucky if they can take 12 weeks maternity leave. I pumped in an electrical closet full of spiders when I returned to work 12 weeks after my son was born. My supervisor, who suggested I quit when I told her I was pregnant, told me it was up to me to figure out how and where to pump at work.

When I returned to a different job following eight weeks of unpaid leave after my daughter was born, I pumped in a common area bathroom. That boss told me she was withholding my bonus because I got pregnant and only had this to say about my breastfeeding, “You’re not going to put that milk in the fridge, are you?” I didn’t. I brought my own cooler to the office.

Women hear such a mixed message when it comes to having children. Embrace motherhood, raise good and healthy children, earn a living (because we need your income) but manage it all on your own time behind closed doors.  Just last week The Mama Bee was harassed by a conductor on the Long Island Railroad because she was breastfeeding her baby on the train.  Her story is upsetting and sadly still too common. Read it here.

The Mama Bee writes about the fact there are men who are comfortable viewing women’s breasts for pleasure but not for nourishment. I wonder where the support for breastfeeding is from the people who made pregnancy a preexisting condition, don’t want women to have control over when they have children and fail to implement family-friendly policies in the workplace?

Visit the WABA website to learn more about the benefits of breastfeeding and what we can do to support nursing mothers.

The Skinny on Breast-Feeding

November 13, 2009
By Hello Ladies

brownieMajor eye-rolling ensued when I read the article in The New York Times this week about breast-feeding and weight loss. Now that women have surpassed men on the national payroll shouldn’t we be talking about the obstacles women face pumping at work? (FYI, you can check out Moms to Work and The Savvy Gal for those stories.)

To be fair, the Times has written several articles this year on breast-feeding. They’ve covered the health benefits for mothers and babies, a link between breast-feeding and lower breast cancer rates, and the challenges of working, travelling and pumping.  But I am more interested in changing work/life policies that favor working parents than I am in changing my waistline.

The eye-rolling started at this sentence:

These days, more than ever, a mother is expected to bounce back from pregnancy and be a “yummy mummy” in no time.

And really got going here:

Earlier this year, Rebecca Romijn, who wore a shrink-wrapped outfit in “X-Men,” called breast-feeding her new twins “the very best diet I’ve been on.” After Angelina Jolie posed for the November 2008 cover of W magazine nursing one of her twins, she said that it had helped her regain her figure.

Come on, NYT. We expect People Magazine and US Weekly to feed us that load of BS. But the Gray Lady? Surely, you suspect nutritionists, trainers and eating disorders play a role in postpartum celebrity body bounce backs, don’t you?

Maybe I’m bitter because even though I nursed, I’m still trying to shed the weight I gained while pregnant with my daughter. (She’s five.) And certainly, I’m not above wanting to look good postpartum. At my 12 week checkup following the C-section delivery of my firstborn, my doctor asked me how I was healing.

“I’m bleeding,” I said.

She looked concerned. “That doesn’t sound right. Your scar was healing nicely.”

“It’s not my scar,” I confessed. “It’s my stomach. I tried to wear my pre-pregnancy jeans and my fat got caught in the zipper.”

But it was this quote that really got my eyes-rolling:

Ms. Walker thinks breast-feeding mothers shouldn’t feel guilty for loving the calorie burn. “We deserve it,” she said. “She ought to get into those skinny jeans after 9 months of pregnancy and 20 hours of labor. That’s what I tell mothers. Go for it.”

Hey Ms. Walker: You know what I deserve after 9 months of pregnancy and 36 hours of labor? A pass on how I look and a big fat fudge brownie!

 

Real Stories of Maternity Leave

October 1, 2009
By Hello Ladies

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Hello Ladies. Check out our October feature story, “Real Stories of Maternity Leave.”

Here’s an excerpt:

These stories aren’t uncommon. Many women cobble together vacation, sick time and disability so they can afford to stay home for a month or two after giving birth. Or they return to work only to learn their bonus has been cut and they’ve fallen out of favor. And many of them walk away without a fight, because they are exhausted, worried about the repurcussions, and focused on their future.

Even the women who consider their experience a positive one, are working during leave, losing needed income, and returning to work sleep deprived only to express breast milk in bathrooms, airports and company parking lots. As one nonprofit fundraiser who did not want her name mentioned said, “(Having a baby) is a precious time in life and it should be very sacred. But the fact is women have to rush through the process and hurry back to work and pump in a closet.”

Burberry and Breastfeeding

August 31, 2009
By Hello Ladies

UmbrellaWhen it comes to fashion, I’ve always believed in quality over quantity. I’m a big fan of amortizing my purchases  — dividing the estimated number of times I’ll wear something by the cost of the item and then adding in maintenance fees. It helps justify a big ticket item.

For example, 11 years ago I bought a pair of classic black Gucci loafers with silver horse bits for $300. They have never gone out of style and I wear them all the time. With a little shoe polish I keep them looking good  — although I have had to get them resoled twice.  I can’t begin to imagine how many actual days I’ve worn them. But even if I amortize the initial purchase price over 11 years – they were a steal. $300 + $100 (cobbler fees) / 11 = $36. I dare you to find a quality, classic shoe for less than $36.

 So Ladies, as summer comes to an end, if you are thinking about purchasing any new cold weather gear, I urge you to consider buying quality. How about Burberry? A trench will require a $900 outlay of cash up front and a rain hat $125. But do the math. You will have these items forever.

 Not convinced? Here’s an even better reason to buy Burberry. Your option is Totes/Isotoner and sure their products can be purchased at malls, department stores and outlets everywhere. And sure, they cost a lot less than Burberry and look pretty good. But, did you know, that Totes/Isotoner fired an employee for taking unauthorized breaks to pump her breasts?

 That’s right, according to an article in the Columbus Dispatch the woman went to pump before her scheduled break because her breasts ached. She was fired for not following directions. That direction was you can pump every five hours.

 Anyone out there ever nurse? If so, you know that women can’t really control how and when the milk flows. A sound, a picture, a thought and plain old biology will trigger it. And somehow it never really feels that professional to leak through our Ann Taylor blouses. Nor does it feel very comfortable to ask our bosses if we can go pump our breasts. Instead, we sneak off discreetly to the corporate lactation room (Yeah right. After my first child was born I pumped in an electrical closet filled with spiders. After my second child, I pumped in a bathroom stall.) and make up the missed time at lunch, at night, somehow, someway.

 This case is a classic example of the many unchecked obstacles women face at work. As one commenter pointed out on the Columbus Dispatch website, what about the employees who take the sports page into the men’s room and disappear for 30 minutes? Should we fire them too?

 So Ladies, before you decide to save money and buy the $24 umbrella instead of another brand for $30, $40 or perhaps $125, ask yourself what your purchasing power is worth to working women and mothers everywhere. Ban Isotoner.

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