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I Hid New Shoes in the Trunk of My Car

June 9, 2011
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30 percent of women hide purchases in the trunk of their carTuesday on my lunch break I bought a pair of navy BCBG ballet flats at DSW. Originally $98 they were marked down to $25. And then I threw them in the trunk of my car. And I left them there until later that night, after everyone in the house had gone to sleep. Then I snuck them inside and slid them into the closet next to my brown, grey and leopard ballet flats.

Do I really need to hide a $25 purchase? No. I just wanted to avoid the inevitable conversation.

“Do you really need another pair of black shoes?”

“They’re not black. They’re blue.”

“Whatever. Do you really need another pair of shoes?”

“Yes. I didn’t have blue ballet flats.”

“But don’t you have zebra ones?”

“Leopard.”

“Whatever. So why did you need another pair?”

“Because I didn’t have blue.”

“You have those pointy toe ones.”

“Those are slingbacks. These are flats. And they are light blue. These are navy.”

“Whatever. Money doesn’t grow on trees.”

“Neither do shoes.”

So I hid them. And I am not alone. Daily deal site Eversave, along with MyCityMommy, surveyed more than 500 women about their shopping habits and 30 percent of the respondents admitted to hiding a purchase in the trunk of their car. Frankly we’re surprised the number isn’t higher. Fifty-five percent of women have thrown something out or donated an old item to make room for new purchases. And only 18 percent shop absolutely guilt free.

This despite the fact women know how to save money. Almost all of the women (93 percent) surveyed by Eversave use  coupons and/or promo codes and shop during sales. Eighty-three percent use daily deal sites to get a bargain and 80 percent sign up from coupons from their favorite brands.

So why the guilt? Or are you just sneaking around so you don’t have to explain why you need more than five pair of jeans?

Six Things We Need to Do to Send a Woman to the White House

July 9, 2010
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Last week I posted a question at SkinnyScoop: Do you think a woman will be elected president in your lifetime? Most of the respondents (81 percent) said yes. No one answered definitely not. I sure hope the respondents are right, but getting there won’t be easy.

One respondent at SkinnyScoop wrote, “We are ready and there are more of us than them, we just need to get out and vote ladies.” It seems simple. But it’s not. The sad truth is we haven’t moved past the misogyny and sexism we witnessed during Hillary Clinton’s candidacy. Senate hopeful Martha Coakley didn’t do herself any favors when she made some bad campaign decisions last winter but the press didn’t do her many favors either. And the Republicans don’t seem to treat their women much better, as Newsweek recently pointed out.

I remember during Clinton’s presidential run people groaning about the word misogyny. “I’m so sick of feminists talking about misogyny,” friends and coworkers would tell me when I was discussing things Tucker Carlson, Chris Matthews, Glen Beck and Keith Olbermann had said on television the night before. I challenge those same people to come up with a better explanation for Playboy’s recent article (which has been removed from its site) “The Top 10 Conservative Women We Love to Hate” complete with hatef**k ratings for each woman.

The fact is the media can be a brutal place for women in politics and we are far from achieving any kind of critical mass. Women make up only 17 percent of Congress today and only six states have women serving as governor. So, if we are going to put a woman in the White House ladies, we have work to do. Here are six things you can do to make it happen.

1. Contribute. It takes a lot of money to get elected. Just recently, two promising women candidates ended races citing lack of support from their party, the Democrats. Ohio Secretary of State Jennifer Brunner lost the primary to Lt. Gov. Lee Fisher and Connie Saltonstall quit the race to replace Michigan’s Congressman Bart Stupak. Saltonstall said she didn’t think she could raise the necessary funds to run without her party’s support.

2. Volunteer. It also takes a lot of people power to run a campaign. Get involved. Too often I hear mother’s in my community tell me they just don’t have the time to get involved because their children need them at home. I tell them my children need me out fighting for the things I believe will secure their future. Your kids will be fine if you spend a few hours at the phone bank. Trust me.

3. Support qualified women candidates. Period. As Gloria Feldt says, “… when there are two candidates–one male and one female–who are both well-qualified and represent my positions major issues I care about, I will support the woman until such time as women have our fair 50% share of the elected official slots. Then and only then will gender not matter.”

4. Start local. Get involved in your local politics and help groom future women leaders.

5. Run. Better yet, why don’t you run for office? Check out She Should Run or attend a Whitehouse Project event for more information and access to support.

6. Vote.

 

And in other news, congratulations to Mary Jo McMenamin who won a Yogi Max from Yogibo for answering our question at The SkinnyScoop.

News from Around the Web

June 28, 2010
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Elena Kagan

We partied like 6 year old rock stars this weekend (mini-golf, bumper boats, birthday party, beach and boogie boards) and now we are dragging. We’ll be back tomorrow with some thoughts on the Census Bureau data that reveals more women are choosing not to have children.

In the meantime, here are a few interesting stories and tidbits from around the web:

The Senate Judiciary Committee begins confirmation hearings today for Supreme Court nominee Elena Kagan. If confirmed, Kagan will be the fourth women to sit on the high court and it will be the first time there we have a critical mass of women on the bench. To help you follow the hearings, The National Women’s Law Center has published “The Thinking Women’s Guide to the Supreme Court Hearings.”

West Virginia’s Robert Byrd, the longest serving member of the Senate, passed away today at the age of 92. Speculation has begun as to whether or not his passing will affect the Democrat’s financial reform bill and even the Kagan hearings.

From CBS, “Ten Angry Women Stop One Peeping Tom, Say Tenn. Cops” According to police in Church Hill, Tenn. A group of women prevented a suspected peeper from leaving a thrift store until police arrived after one of the women discovered a peep hole in the dressing room. Women can accomplish anything when they work together.

And finally, we are sponsoring a contest this week over at The SkinnyScoop. Answer the question, “Do you think a woman will be elected president in your lifetime?” and you could win a YogiboMax.

The Skinny and the Scoop from Two Women Entrepreneurs

June 26, 2010
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SkinnyScoop founders Erin Crocker and Eden Godsoe

We are hooked on the TheSkinnyScoop, an online surveying tool for women. While our first impression of this website was, ”It’s just another resource for women who over-engineer parenting,” the SkinnyScoop is more than we thought. For starters, the site sets itself apart from other resources that feed on mothers’ insecurities. SkinnyScoop provides information direct from other women without any editorializing or product pitches. And, it goes beyond parenting and poses questions like “Have you ever hit the glass ceiling at work?” (Okay, so we posted that one.)

As SkinnyScoop founders Eden Godsoe and Erin Crocker point out, when it comes to most family and household decisions, women call the shots. At SkinnyScoop, they can find and share information to make sure they spend wisely – and as you know, we are big fans of women using their purchasing power for good not evil.

Says Godsoe, “The whole idea behind SkinnyScoop is that women seek out the advice of other women for our purchase choices and other major decisions.  We want to know how our girlfriends and other women we respect have tackled the same issue or purchase.”

Godsoe and Crocker met when they were roommates at Stanford Graduate School of Business. Crocker is a fact finder. She researches everything from vacation destinations to strollers to healthy food choices and she likes sharing her findings and helping other women.  Godsoe, on the other hand, is perfectly happy to rely upon the research other women conduct and go with the choices  of her ”go-to” girlfriends. Following careers in technology, banking and parenting, they launched the site together at the end of 2009.

“We believe the differences in our backgrounds and our personalities is one of the key success factors to both SkinnyScoop and our friendship,” says Godsoe.  

We recently caught up with the ladies of the Scoop and asked them a few questions about their foray into entrepreneurship.

Q. What are the biggest challenges you face as working mothers?

A. It’s always tough to balance work and home life and we don’t profess to have found the magic potion.  In fact, while Eden feels good about her work-life balance, Erin struggles with it.  What is interesting is that Eden has always worked full-time outside the home and puts in about 80 hours per week on SkinnyScoop while raising 2 young children; Erin was a stay-at-home mom to her 2 children for 7 years before launching SkinnyScoop and currently works part-time at SkinnyScoop.  There is no target ratio of work hours to family hours that results in the right work-life balance.  Eden has always accepted that there is no perfect solution and that the whole discussion around work-life balance puts undue pressure on working women.  Once you take away guilt and find a way to live in the moment – be that a business meeting or playtime with the kids or date night with a partner – you will be happier.

 Q. As women entrepreneurs, what are your biggest challenges?

A. We face the same challenges that any entrepreneur (male or female) faces, including staying focused yet being flexible, building a strong team, attracting early funding, growing our traffic while also driving revenues, etc.  At the same time there are additional challenges as female entrepreneurs.  We find it surprising that while there is a lot of focus on the mom space (everyone from large companies to start-ups seems to have (finally) figured out that women hold the purse strings and collectively spend over $2 trillion per year on household-related goods and services), female entrepreneurs are still not getting funded.  Many “mom-focused” online companies – from social networks for moms to e-commerce companies targeting women – were started by and are run by men, often men who don’t have children.  We believe that a company like SkinnyScoop, where authenticity and trust are key, could only be founded by two women.  To that end, being female entrepreneurs is an advantage.

Q. Ninety percent of venture money flows to men. What advice do you have for women seeking capital?

A. Most of our advice applies to men as well as women – find a good co-founder, implement a lean approach, iterate quickly, leverage your network, raise more rather than less money, etc.  There are definitely unique challenges we female entrepreneurs face when raising capital.  First, most angels or VC partners are male and tend to fund entrepreneurs like them or companies they understand.  Second, women (in general) tend to present with less confidence and do a poorer job of selling the vision and opportunity even when its big.  To overcome these obstacles, we heavily leveraged the network we had developed over the years of working in Silicon Valley and while going to Stanford Business School.   We built this network up over 15 years and we highly recommend doing the same well in advance of starting a company.   We also took a very confident and “this is big” approach from the get-go.  You need to put your business into tangible terms like revenue potential and exit strategy.  It’s still a man’s world but that doesn’t need to stop us.

Q. What has been the funniest, most surprising or most outrageous question asked on The SkinnyScoop?

A. Here are some of our favorites:

Funny: Would you want to look like Madonna at 50 years old?

Surprising: Have you ever spanked your child?

Risque: Are you sometimes afraid to cuddle as it will lead to sex?

Practical: Are you happy with your work-life balance?

Pop over to SkinnyScoop and answer our question: Do you think a woman will be elected president in your lifetime?

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